If only... ... ... If only I had an amazing (real) leather jacket. If only I had more reading books (and an amazing library to put them all in). If only I was finished my uni degree. If only I were healthier and fitter. If only I didn't get sick so often. If only I were 5kg lighter. If only there were more time in each day. Does any of this sound like you? How often do we catch ourselves thinking about what we don't have, or what we aren't?
Last Saturday (the 4th of August) I went to the Perth Women's Convention and the topic was Contentment. It was an amazing day filled with motivational speeches and inspirational life stories. The speaker for the day was Sarie King. She had three speeches, each of them focussing on a passage from the Bible which focussed on being content and how we have to work at being content.
So what is the secret of contentment. In Philippians, Paul says that he has learned to be content whatever the circumstances. Contentment is not based on our personality or the circumstances that we are in. Contentment is something that we have to learn. We have to learn to find contentment in every circumstance, despite the circumstances. So how do we learn to be happy and satisfied in all our circumstances?
As Jerry Bridges says in His book The Practice of Godliness:
"Contentment is one of the most distinguishing traits of the godly person, because a godly person has his heart focussed on God rather than on possessions or position or power.
The idea of contentment in the Bible is most often associated with possessions or money, but ther are other areas of life in which we need to be content. After possessions, probably the most common need it to learn contentment with our place in society or in the body of Christ.
Still a third area that demands our practice of contentment is the providence of god in such varied circumstances such as physical limitations and afflictions, privations and unpleasant neighbours or living situations, trials and even persecutions.
If we look at the next verse in Philippians 4, we read I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength (vs. 13). It is by the strength of Christ that Paul has learnt how to be content and it is in the same way that we can learn how to be content. We can find satisfaction regardless of our circumstances because Christ is working in us. Knowing that Christ is working in us, we can rest in the assurance that all things work together for those who love Him (Romans 8:28). We can be content and know that God is looking after everything. That is not to say that overnight we can be content. It is something that we should continue to work at because it doesn't come immediately. We have to grow in trust with God and know that we can give all the worry to Him, because he is in control.
Be anxious for nothing, but in everything, with prayer and supplication, let your requests be made known to God, and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. (Philippians 4:6-7). Bring everything before God, knowing that he is in control. Know that we have everything we need in Him, He is sufficient for all.
**** The convention was run by the organisation Christian Conventions of WA (ccowa.org) and I strongly recommend that others become involved. There is a mens one coming up on the 8th of Sept on the topic of Temptation and there are other events that they run as well. Have a look at the website for more details.
